Women'sTwisted View Of Weight

I have heard many women talk about how their weight affects every part of their life - as in getting guys, making friends and being succesfful. But I have to say; that is complete crap.

All of those sorts of things are not affected by weight - they are affected by our thoughts and the way we think. 

Because of our messed up view of beauty we associate being boyish thin as what we need to be. The mark that we need to hit and we spend our life being miserable if we have not hit that mark.

If we could change our mind about what we should be striving for then we would be able to move past weight and get on with our lives.

Why are we wasting our time putting all of our energy into our size, shape, and weight. Why don't we put that energy towards being healthy, having healthy relationships, and putting joy into the world.

How many women do you look at, regardless of their size or anything else, and think "Wow they're ugly!"

I'm willing to bet that you are like me and can see the beauty in every single woman out there. So let's start looking at ourselves like that.

Everyday look in the mirror and tell yourself how attractive you are. Remind yourself that other countries don't live like this. They celebrate their bodies and don't obsess over them. They enjoy their life. Remember that a boyish figure is NOT the ideal of sexy.  

A woman's figure should have curves. That's what makes us woman! Otherwise we would all look like men!